On 8 Aug 2014, I went to MASPEX 2014 exhibition in Sutera Mall, JB in a group of 4 people (my lab mates). One property agent (Malay woman) thought I am from management faculty
when I told her I’m a post graduate student. Maybe due to my attire
(refer picture below) that never represents my nature core of study, Engineering ^_^
While in other booth, entertained by a property agent (Chinese
woman), her colleague compliment my skin condition. She say my skin were
flawless and radiant! Wow, I was
stunned for a moment, but immediately thanked her for the compliment. It
does makes me feel flustered when people compliment me openly in front
of my colleagues. My colleague did even say that I give effort taking
care of my skin. All thanks to the benefit using VCO (Virgin Coconut Oil)
as make up remover, moisteriser, night cream, consumption and all ^_^
Getting more and more compliment after using VCO daily. Actually, my
make up at that time were bare minimum since I wear my glasses. My make
up at that time : BB Cream, compact powder, eyeliner, eyebrows liner,
blusher and soft lipstick (refer to picture below. Sorry for no complete
face picture). Well, people and MUA (Make Up Artist) do say that
healthy, clean and clear skin was like a white canvas that easily to put
on make up and you will look radiant although the make up is minimal.
So, back to the how by staying beautiful boost your confidence?
Definition of confidence. I would take second definition
from first noun of google search = a feeling of self-assurance arising
from an appreciation of one’s own abilities or qualities.
My definition of confidence are = A confident person is someone who
can fit in anywhere, talk to anyone, and be exactly who they want to be.
Confidence is knowing who you are and what you stand for in all
situations.
How to get confidence? I would like to emphasis knowledge as main
source to be confidence. If you do not have the knowledge, it would be
hard for you to break the ice for conversation with others. And
knowledge also helps you to get along with others.
For me, I do lots of research on my works since I am full time
researcher. This make me tend to always make back ground study on things
that I like to do (hobby, make up), cooking, baking, to buy list and
etc. Then, I could set target and priority on which to be done first and
budget for the activity. I also love to spend my time reading books
that helps to boost your self esteem. However, not all people would like
to do tedious things like I do. So, for those who do not have ample
time to do so, they could skip those tedious work by joining my grooming class which I would inform later in my next entry.
As from my research and reading, I do found that it is normal for
foreigner and those who their works involving VIP to spend their money
to attend classes on how to talk, dress up and etc. Still not all people
have extra to spend for those specific kind of programs or classes.
Well, this is where my grooming class comes to rescue you ^_^
For me, I think I need to have this order to complement my confidence
level: inner self, knowledge, looks (this include make up, attire,
attitude for appearance).
Last but not least, be yourself with confident.
I would like to share on how to get the looks even when you are not born with it in my next entry.
Have a good day ^_^
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